Introduction
It’s that time of the year again! Valentine's day is just around the corner and it has us all anxious and excited in anticipation. Struggling to find the perfect way to express your love for your man? Fear not, we’ve got you covered with a list of thoughtful dates and gift ideas for him.
Date Ideas FOR HIM
Ugh, we get it! Men are hard to plan stuff for, but don’t you worry baby girl - here are 10 date ideas that you can steal to make him smile!
Skincare/Spa Date - They love it! Yes men, we know. Take him out for a relaxing day at a spa - because the only stress he's allowed to take is ✨You✨. Depending on your budget and social preference, you can also choose to be his beautician for the day - making him experience your whole 500 step skincare ritual first hand. He'd say no, but who cares? You could also force him to get a manicure and pedicure with you.
Recreate Your First Date - Same place, same time, same outfits (that is, if you both remember). Go back to the place where it all started and enjoy revisiting those memories with your favourite man in the world!
Bed & Breakfast - Surprise your dream man with his favourite breakfast while he's still in his dreams. A perfect start to a perfect day!
Treasure Hunt - Except, the treasure is the love letters you'd write for him. Write him a few letters, and hint the location of the succeeding letter in each message before hiding them in their respective spots! Bonus points if you include a gift with each letter too!
Write a Poem/Song for him - This could go both ways. Whether your poem is a masterpiece or a comedic disaster, the effort will surely make him smile. A win is a win.
Cook for Him - You know what they say - The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Cook his favourite meal and surprise him. Or, you both could cook something he likes together.
Make a scrapbook/movie together - with all your fun, happy moments together. That ought to make him smile with tears in his eyes. Whoever’s chopping onions! Alternatively, you could also make a movie with all your recorded moments together and present it in front of him.
Art Attack - Indulge in a fun Art night with your man, where you both paint each other’s portraits - even if you’re not an artist. Actually, even better if you both aren’t good at art - the laughs and giggles are worth the accidental roasts!
Surprise Staycation with a Themed Room - Book a hotel room or Airbnb and decorate it with a theme that reflects something you both love. Bring along matching robes, scented candles, and a playlist to set the mood.
Private Photo Shoot Date - Book a professional photographer for a couple’s themed photoshoot. Depending upon your preference, you could choose your outfits and locations to get the photoshoot done at. You could do Disney couple themed shoots, or any other iconic ship that you both adore.
Gift Ideas FOR HIM
Men are simple creatures. A simple thoughtful present goes a long way. Here are 10 gifting ideas that can help you make your man feel special and loved!
Customised Accessories - Gift him a watch or a bracelet with your ship name/initials engraved on. Depending on his personal style and preference, you could choose different types of accessories for this purpose. When giving it to him, explain why you chose this piece.
Love Coupons – Make personalized “coupons” for things he’ll enjoy (e.g., breakfast in bed, a movie night,).
Custom T-shirt - You could get him a TShirt that has a memorable picture of you two. You could also take inspiration from the world's most romantic couple - Michi & Yoshirin (From Shinchan) and get matching green T-shirts with a big pink heart in the centre. Cringe, but who cares?
Luxury Whiskey or Wine Set – If your man likes indulging in a quick drink after a long day, this might be something that makes him happy. Include glasses and a decanter.
Voice-Activated Love Jar – This is an incredibly romantic, personalized gift with a touch of tech and surprise. It’s perfect for leaving daily reminders of love and motivation that can make him feel closer to you when you’re away.
Knitted Scarf or Sweater - If you enjoy indulging into crafty passions, this would be a great idea for a gift. The final product shall reflect all the time, love, and effort you pour into the making of this present, with every stitch representing your feelings for him, making this gift truly memorable.
365 Love Notes Jar - Let him have a piece of your heart every single day for a year. The 365 Love Notes Jar is a deeply romantic and thoughtful gift, filled with handwritten notes that he can open every day for an entire year. Each note serves as a reminder of your love, shared memories, and little surprises that will brighten his day. Would be a little funny on days y’all are fighting though!
Flowers - Men like flowers too! Different flowers signify different things, for example red roses, red tulips and sunflowers signify true and dedicated love while white roses, white tulips and lilies symbolise new beginnings. Research about flowers and their significance and choose what fits best for your relationship. Bonus points if you throw in a letter/note explaining the significance and reason for your choice as well.
3-D Mini You & Him - We wish we were talking about babies here, but sadly, we have to stick to the script. Turn a special moment into a beautifully detailed miniature sculpture with the help of 3D printers. Now he can look at the both of you together, whenever life gives him lemons!
Mystery Box - Take a box and fill it with multiple thoughtful gifts, you could consider a few of the above mentioned ideas as well. Add in his favorite snacks, a personally written letter expressing your love for him and flowers. This would be ideal for picnic date scenarios.
All in all, if you pay attention to him, you’d know what he’d really appreciate as a gift. A little thought goes a long way. Wishing you all a very happy Valentine’s day in advance, we hope you enjoy this season of love to the fullest!
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