So, you have been spending too much time lying in your couch in the same pajamas for days because you don’t really go out much. Why? Because you have very less friends or perhaps their perspective of having fun does not resonate with yours. If this sounds like your life, it’s time to shake things up and stop living like a hermit. Friends are not just there to keep company, they help us grow, laugh and become better versions of ourselves. While some people effortlessly make new friends wherever they go, others still struggle to figure it out. But don’t worry, it is never too late to work on that.
See the good in others: One common mistake people make when trying to make friends is focusing too much on flaws and criticism. Pointing out mistakes or being overly critical can push people away. Instead, try to notice and appreciate the good in others. Compliment them sincerely and highlight their strengths. This not only helps build a positive connection but also makes people feel valued and happy around you.
Smile more: This is simple. No one enjoys being around someone who always looks annoyed or unapproachable. A warm smile makes you more inviting and spreads positivity to those around you. The more you smile, the more people will enjoy your company and feel good when they are with you.
Be kind and helpful: Ignoring someone won’t make them chase you. It just pushes them away. Gone are the days when playing hard to get worked in forming or maintaining friendships. Nowadays, people value genuine connections with those who care and show kindness. Being helpful and thoughtful makes you stand out. Everyone appreciates a friend who is supportive and kind without expecting anything in return.
Take the lead: When you are in a group whether with classmates, colleagues or acquaintances, be the one to step up and make plans. Taking initiative helps bring people together and naturally makes you the centre of attention. It also boosts your confidence. Everyone is drawn to someone who exudes confidence and enthusiasm.
Be open and share: This is one of the most important steps to making friends. People are often hesitant to open up, so if you do not take the first step, they might never do it either. Start by expressing your thoughts, experiences and emotions whether it is happiness, struggles or everyday moments. The more you open up, the more others will feel comfortable doing the same, building deeper and more meaningful connections.
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